Body language is a universal language and
everyone in the world can easily understand
this language. It is inherently learnt by every
human being. People see you before listening
you. The body language is a collection of
gestures, postures, facial expression and eye
contacts and movements. Body language of a
person delivers solid cues about the state of
mind and the attitudes. Body language of a
person tells how he or she feels. It tells
about the person whether he or she is happy,
sad, agreed, comforted, tired, annoyed,
excited, attracted, pleased or
amused.
In fact all of the mental and physical conditions can be
interpreted through understanding body
language.
How to read and understand body
language
Reading and understanding body language has been very easy but
it takes a little bit more consideration when decoding to the
maximum truth. There are different body language gestures and
postures and they have different meanings in different
scenarios. Read the body
language of eyes first to make an estimate of what lies
behind the eyes. Eye contact is a very powerful tool of body
language. The speaking style of a person sends out more than
the words spoken. What would you perceive when you see a person
sweating when there is nothing to cause him or her sweating?
The standing posture would let you know how the person is
feeling at the time. The way a person walk lets other people
know about a person’s steadiness and readiness along with
health of that person. The reaction of a touch might tell you
whether someone likes you or not. Facial expressions tend to
communicate all the feelings that a person has in his mind. A
combination of facial expression with the talking makes a
person easy to be understood. Read
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Attraction body language
A women is attracted to a man when she delivers signs of her
attraction by tilting her head, crossing her legs or
triangulation. A man is said to be attracted if his body
language shows the same. A man is attracted to a woman when he
consistently stares at her, settles his hair when seeing her
and passing a smile to show his interest.
Attraction body language is, perhaps, the easiest language to
understand for a woman. The same is the case when a man wants
to learn attraction
body language of women. When a woman is standing at the
corner table and her body is directed to you, the smile passed
by her or a triangulation means she is attracted towards you.
This is the best time to plan a date the same week. There is a
natural attraction between opposite sex. If a man is handsome
or a woman is beautiful, it is natural for the opposite sex to
be attracted to him or her. In a relationship starting period,
when people tend to be reserved because they do have some
personal space, communicate their interest by non verbal cues.
The attraction body language goes a long way in establishing
the relationships between two persons if understood and
interpreted accordingly. Read more...
Flirting body language
Flirting body language tells you that some one is just
impressed with you, attracted towards you are just having fun
with you. It is on the discretion of the person decoding the
flirting body
language how he or she interprets the flirting indicators.
Some people use flirting in the start of their meeting because
they like the other person. The flirting body language
indicators usually include staring at a person without
blinking, mirroring, triangulation, playing with fingers and
nails, crossing the legs, stretching the body etc. you just
need to recognize and interpret the flirting body language the
right way. It would let you know what to do the next. You may
use your body language to retaliate. If you like the person’s
flirting with you; you may approach him or her. The next thing
to be decided would be the menu of the next
meeting. Read more...
Male body language
Male body language is
intelligible but not as predictable as a female body language. Men are
more competent in hiding their feelings. They like to dominate
other women. Women like alpha males, so a male would like to
show his body language that conveys his impression, physical
expansion, interest and attraction. Males remain reserved while
delivering their non verbal signals. Men know that a woman
likes confident and powerful males. This knowledge makes them
deliver such cues that represent warmth, power and energy.
Active listening would be experienced by you if a male is
interested or attracted to you. A male would be interested in
you if he tries to enter your personal bubble. He would like to
get as closer to you as you let him be. If you do not know the
man staring at you or showing interest in you, you may approach
him if you are also interested. Read more...
Female body language
Females use five times more body language as compared to
the men. It is very difficult for a female to hide her
emotions. The females are naturally sensitive in fact. But it
is also a truth an fact that reading and understanding any book
of the world is relatively easier than understanding a woman.
There are some certain standard clues that a female delivers
and those have the same meanings what she wants to convey.
Dating with a female would be quite possible if you see her
looking towards you and at the same time she moistens her lips.
This is called the open invitation and the opportunity must be
availed. Blushing is something that is out of control of a
woman. She is showing her interest by hiding from you and
blushing at the same time. Read more...
Body language lying secrets
People use body language to pretend what they are saying is
right and true. A person tries to hide his body language while
telling a lie. This is depicted by the nervousness and
reluctance to express. When a person is speaking the truth, he
is normal whereas a person telling a lie can not remain normal
for a longer time. His gestures and postures would ask you
directly whether it is all ok or not. A person using body language
lying is more prone to sweating even in a normal weather.
You can expect an immediate answer from a true person but a
person telling a lie would have a sufficient delay to take time
to think what to reply. Face gets paler when there are
possibilities of fraud or lie detection. The body lying secrets
have been revealed by many researchers. These secrets help us a
lot in getting the perfect and sincere match for
us. Read
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Body language gestures and signs
In order to read and understand body language, you need to have
the knowledge of the body language gestures
and signs. There are many gestures and postures that a male
or female uses. These might be intentional or unintentional.
The body language gestures, postures and other signs might
include smiling, giggling, standing posture, staring, walking
with different styles, stretching the body, moistening the
lips, nibbling the lips, clenching or closing the fists,
putting the hands on the hips, drumming or tapping with the
fingers, tilting or nodding the head, frowning and many others
which convey different meanings in different circumstances. It
is the matter of your practice how accurately you interpret
these body language gestures, postures and
signs. Read
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Body language for better
relationship
You can establish a better relationship if you understand the
nature of
the relationship and use your body language accordingly.
You can not use a body language showing bossy style with your
girl friend or parents. You need to mold your body language
according to the person. You might have to face resistance if
you misconceive the need of a particular body language cue. At
the beginning of a new relationship, body language plays a
greater role in communicating your feelings because at this
time you are a bit reserved and do not want to expose your
feelings to the other person in words. You want let the other
person know and assess your feelings him or
herself. Read
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Body language for social dominance
Social dominance has been the need of every human being. The
man has always desired to be respected and held in a high
esteem. In order to obtain social dominance, people do not tell
others in words or order them to follow. It is just their
body language
that forces others to follow him or her. People wish to be
among the highest class and they try their best to use their
body language for this purpose.
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Body language for career advance
When you are going for an interview, be prepared to know what
body language you should use for a successful interview. Use of
effective body language goes a long way help you excel in your
career. Body language plays a subordinate role in your career
advance. So it is very beneficial for you to learn the specific body
language gestures and postures. You can soon become the
boss of your boss if you know the technique.
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