best thing with the body language is that it
can be understood by any person who does not
know how to decode the words of any language he
does not know. Body language is a universal
language. It is very interesting for somebody
to learn body language because he is going to
learn the language of every person around the
globe. It is an art to read and understand a
person’s body language in order to know whether
he or she is lying or speaking the truth. I am
sure that you would better know your girl
friend if you know how to read and understand
Body language is not
just about know what a person is thinking but it also gives you
an insight into the future intentions of a your partner; so
guys, take some good lessons so that no one could ever cheat
you with words only.
Body language is
something that we ignore most of the time. We do not give it
much importance and leave many useful signals unnoticed but our
subconscious does react up to an extent to the body language or non verbal communication of
People usually ask how
to read and understand body language. They think it to e very
difficult whereas it is the easiest language of the world that
is spoken worldwide. If you can read and understand body
language then you are at a very good position as compared to
others who do not pay much attention to the body language. Off
course reading and understanding body language is a great skill
that needs some training and practical
Here are some tips that
would help you how to read and understand the body language.
These tips are associated with different body parts and their
Whenever you happen to
see a person you have eye contact with him or her. Eyes are
very playful in giving the non verbal cues. You can judge the
expressions of happiness, anger, sorrow, fear, surprise, etc
from the language of eyes. The eyes of a person would surely
let you know what the intentions behind the eyes are. Staring
with stagnant eyes would let you know how annoyed a person is
with you. In the same way, if a person is not having eye
contact while talking to you, it simply means something is
going wrong or unexplained.
You can read and
understand a person’s mood while talking to him or her. For
example, your boy friend or girl friend would be very
garrulous, excited, warm and friendly when he or she is in good
mood. On the other hand, crude, erratic and dull words would
let you know that it is not a good time to
Sweating is a good part
of body language and can tell you a lot about a person.
Sweating of a person normal condition indicates any health
problem or uneasiness with a particular situation. Nervous
anxiety also causes sweating.
Posture would immediately let you know how a person is feeling
or reacting to a particular situation. A slumping posture shows
that the person is tired, depressed and sad whereas upright and
straight posture would indicate a person’s attentiveness,
excitement and readiness.
The person walking fast points out the energy and excitement a
person has and when a person is walking slowly when there is no
need to walk slowly means he or she is tired and lacks energy.
This also shows disinterestedness in joining something.
Touch is the direct body language. It apparently lets you know
what some body feels and reacts for you. A warm and excited hug
or handshake means that the person likes to see you and is
happy to see you. The interpretation would be opposite if he
pushes your hand or seems leaving your having just after a
Face indicates how somebody is responding to you for your
treatment. Passing a smile indicates that the person is very
happy with you and if frowning is faced, then it is better to
be away from that person for the time being.
Each and every part of the body speaks apparent meanings. You
need to give some extra attention to read and understand the